Important steps that can help teenagers overcome video addiction
Douglas Gentile, a psychologist at Iowa State University, did a Harris poll survey on video addiction. Participants were mixed-race American teens (ages 8-18). Results showed 1 in 10 gamers (8.5 percent) were addicted to video games. Pathological gamers played about 4 hours a day, while non-pathological players 2 hours per day.
The survey also indicated that pathological gamers from Singapore, China, Australia, Germany, Taiwan, have 8.5 to 12% statistical average. In the Philippines and South Korea, video addiction is a growing concern.
Mental health condition?
The World Health Organization says that compulsively playing video games now qualifies as a new mental health condition. (USA Today)
My son was generally a happy young kid, then I began to notice certain traits associated with pathological gamers when he was 12. He was impatient, disrespectful, and needed to wear eye prescription. I was emotional and desperate, I needed God’s help.
Practical steps parents can do
Step 1: Remove video gadgets in their bedroom
Most of the pathological gamers have desktop computers and video game console in their bedrooms. Bedroom to them is an entertainment room, rather than a place to rest or meditate on spiritual things, lest study. You can also work around a ‘trust policy,’ where he is not allowed to play his gadgets inside his room during school days.
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Step 2: Let’s have a schedule
If a child was allowed to play video games regularly at an early age, telling them to give it up is not only impossible but may cause deep-seated hurt and cause more harm.
Instead of saying “no more video games for you young man!” do the transition slowly and announce weeks ahead that you are making a schedule. Post it on their door.
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Step 3: Pray for your son
One of my #DadFails was to allow my son to own video game gadgets at an early age. My intention was to boost mental acuity, forgetting that the best way to exercise the brain was to exercise the body, in all of their leisure time.
→ Why I regret allowing my kids to own computer gadgets.
As my son grew into teen years, we often argued about his addictive playing habits. The result was not good because I was seen as overbearing. What helped slow down things was a simple rule – “no video games during school days.” Then I prayed a lot and continues to do so. Addiction can hit anyone and we need God’s grace more than ever.
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